Leave yourself alone!

«Hey you? Yes, I’m talking to you… have you finished criticizing me?»

You’re never satisfied! You tell me I’m fat, so I try to lose weight… but it’s not easy. Maybe because I can’t decrease the doses of the food I’m taking yet, they are already very small. But I try… mostly because I don’t want to hear you say a word about my weight anymore.

And I’m doing it, I lose weight… maybe too much but I’m ready to meet you again, this time I’ll leave you wordless.

«Sorry, what? Do I have a sagging breast?»

Well, with all the pounds I lost, my breasts were affected too… maybe it went down but with a good bra I can still manage it to look good.

In fact… but… I could also evaluate a surgery… humm… no, come on… please, surgery no.

And it ends up I can do it!

I lose weight, I reshape my breast, I adjust my cheekbones, I retouch my mouth and I do all of this just to shutting you up… but you talk… you talk againg and again… and you’re never happy. Now that it’s not me anymore, what else do you want me to do to make you happy?

“MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF”

We grow up with a strong desire to be loved, we want continuous reconfirmations on who we are or what we are worth, mostly we need to be told we are unique and perfect.

We are also able to get sick from this, how many women I’ve seen suffering… how many ones reduced to nothing… in exchange for what, then?

“BE GOOD WITH YOURSELF”

You don’t need someone tell you how much you are worth or how beautiful you are, because you are worth and you are beautiful, exactly the way you are.

Just talk to your mirror, just look to it, smile to it and if you feel that little voice is trying again, then listen to me… put aside the bon ton and tell her to go to hell… once and for all.